Feb 082010

Teaching character is positive training.

When a child is young, a parent tells the child what not to do.  “No, don’t touch, it’s hot.”  “Stop screaming!” “Don’t throw things on the floor.”  Telling a child no is important for them to learn self-control.  Teaching character goes beyond self-control to making the best choices.  Teaching character tells a child why we make good choices.

A person’s integrity or character is going to get them farther in life than specifically what they do as a vocation.

When a person gets a job they need the personal integrity to keep that job.  They need to arrive on time, follow orders, respect others, be responsible, etc. 

Good character motivates the heart to make good choices for the right reason.

When your child is out of your site you can’t correct their behavior.  What you have taught them already will guide them.

You are always teaching your child something.  Children look to their parents as a role model.  They will pick up on your priorites whether you speak them or not.  Young children can be more non-verbal than adults.  Children learn to communticate before they talk.  Your children notice the tone of your voice and your facial expressions.

Teaching character is the biblical model of training.

2Ti 3:15And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.

2Ti 3:16All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
2Ti 3:17 That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.
 
A foundation of scripture is profitable for instruction in righteousness.   The Bible is full of examples of character lessons; good character and bad character.
 
In my first introduction to homeschooling a mother showed me her Konos Curriculum. I struggled to understand teaching school subjects in light of God’s word.  Even though I had grow up as a christian, I had seperated academics and my faith. (Maybe since I saw a conflict?)  In 14 years of homeschooling I have used the Konos Curriculum year after year to teach my children character: attentiveness, obedience, orderliness,  honor and many more.  And since I have also found other helpful books to help me and my children grow in character.
 


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